More than 50% of our clients don’t have lawyers when they start their mediation. Typically, this isn’t a problem until a mediation agreement is reached. Then, they need lawyers to help them turn their mediation agreement into a court order. They ask us who might be able to help …
The very Idea of “Lawyer Assisted Negotiation” is a Misnomer
Lawyer assisted negotiation is not described in any negotiation handbooks. I’m not surprised …
The state has got to stop subsidising family court disputes
The state is directly contributing to adversarial family dispute resolution and to the psychosomatic problems of children when their parents separate.
Are you honest with your clients? (thought of the day)
Patients sometimes expect a doctor to refer them to a specialist when all they need is over-the-counter remedies. Divorce doesn’t have to be a legal problem!
Explaining mediation to your clients (thought of the day)
Trying to explain mediation to someone who knows nothing about it requires a different approach. Tell a story instead, which simplifies mediation.
Divorce treatment (thought of the day)
The relief experienced when a doctor tells us that whatever ails us is treatable is immense. Reassuring clients helps them relax, allows them to see a way forward.
Using initiative and teamwork wins respect from clients and peers
Using initiative is something we're encouraged to do from a young age. Sometimes, using initiative requires a degree...
How can lawyers and mediators communicate better?
How can lawyers and mediators communicate better by changing old habits? Changing habits that you've spent your...
Offering clients guidance
Wikimediator With the internet growing at immeasurable speeds, so is the availability of knowledge to those who seek...
Why solo family practitioners should use WordPress
WordPress is the go-to platform for affordable, professional websites. Sometimes 'affordable' can be misconstrued....
3 dead simple reasons why every DR practice should offer online dispute resolution
Most family practices don't use digital technology to meet with their clients. On the flip side, most family...
Bridging Over Troubled Water
Since my in-laws moved to Sweden in the early 90s, I've been fortunate enough to holiday there annually. Many people...
If change is hard and apathy is easy, is traditional court practice a narcotic?
"Change is hard, apathy is easy and tradition is ... (a) narcotic ..." Russell Brand, a recovering drug addict, said...
What’s Your Groundhog Day?
What's Your Groundhog Day? February 2nd is Groundhog Day in Pennsylvania, USA. It was made famous by the film...
1 of 7 – Essential Mistakes For Lawyers to Avoid When Referring to Family Mediators
Mistakes are part of life. But wouldn't life be easier if you could avoid them? Sometimes, you can. Mistakes are often...
Mediation and The Fake Rolex Syndrome
What have mediation and Rolex watches got in common? They are both treated with suspicion by potential purchasers if...
Dispute Resolution – Are You Online With It?
You know how some things seem to be destined to end up together? Like chocolate and peanut butter, movies and popcorn,...
Freddie Starr Ate Our Mediation Clients
k, he hasn't. Freddie Starr has probably been nowhere...
What makes a good litigator?
Some people might be surprised that, as a mediator, I'd want to write about litigators. Litigation is at the other end...
The Bad Boy of Dispute Resolution. Who, me?
On Friday, I was a panel member at a conference organised by the Leicester Family Justice Board. The plenary speaker...