MIAM stands for Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting. You will need a MIAM in most cases before making an application to the family court for a child arrangement or financial order.

What happens at a MIAM?

The meeting has three main purposes. Firstly, it’s an opportunity for you to describe the current situation to the mediator and tell them what you want help with. Secondly, the mediator will explain how mediation works and how it can help. Thirdly, the mediator will ask you questions to find out if mediation is an appropriate way forward for you. They will also be able to give you information about other alternatives to making a court application.

MIAMs are confidential

The meeting is confidential, and will stay between you and the mediator. There are a couple of exceptions to this. One is if the mediator believes that a child or some other person has suffered harm, or is at risk of suffering harm. The other is if it comes to light that a crime may have been committed.

Who can conduct a MIAM?

The meetings can only be conducted by an authorised mediator. An authorised mediator is one holding accredited status with the Family Mediation Council. Only an accredited mediator can sign a court form to say that the applicant has been to a MIAM.

How long is a MIAM and how much does it cost?

A meeting typically takes between 45 and 60 minutes. The charge varies between different mediation services . Legal Aid is available subject to means testing. The mediator can help you with this.

When don’t you need a MIAM?

There are some exemptions. One example is if you can’t find a mediator within 15 miles. For more exemptions, please click here.

Elisabet Anderson, FMC accredited family mediator.

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